Levels of the INTJ

Ideal:

  • Learned how to manage their arrogance to not intimidate others
  • Does not feel superior to others – understands that everyone has a different place and function
  • Extremely successful in whatever they’ve chosen to do in life
  • Takes the time to listen to others without judgment
  • Learns how to be in tune with other people – esp romantic partners
  • Excellent interpersonal skills
  • Learned how to get in touch with their emotions
  • Leaders and other people look up to them
  • Worked on managing expectations and building patience

Medium:

  • Their superiority may get the better of them in certain situations causing other people to feel alienated
  • Not very tolerant of different views and beliefs
  • Very selective listening
  • Volunteers their time only to causes they deem worthy
  • Tries to manage their emotions but they often have a tough time because they feel it is pointless
  • Small circle of friends that they stick with
  • Can become impatient and rigid with trying to accomplish their goals

Unhealthy:

  • Unwilling to cooperate with others because they feel they are better
  • Believe that they are always right
  • Refuses to deal with their emotions
  • Unable to connect with others emotionally
  • Argumentative and confrontational
  • Inability to work through their challenges prevents them from being successful with their career or job
  • Finds any views other than their own incorrect
  • No tolerance for people they believe are incompetent
  • Can be rude and judgmental