Five Reasons Why Your Relationship is Going to FAIL:
1. You have different beliefs.
You can’t agree to disagree on everything. The core beliefs have to be similar in order to have a functioning relationship. If you really want your relationship to sparkle then sharing a similar belief system is very important. If not, it’s going to fail or it’ll be a superficial one.
2. You can see yourself with another person.
This one is self-explanatory – if you can envision spending time and being with someone else romantically, well then that’s a BIG problem.
3. You’re constantly arguing (see number one).
4. You can’t remember the last time you felt like yourself.
This is important. If you feel like you’re losing yourself, being absorbed, left out, or just cannot remember the last time you felt like you had a real voice – well it’s definitely beyond time to re-evaluate.
5. You’re afraid to admit it’s not going to work out.
There are a ton of reasons why you may feel this way. It could relate to number one and having difficulty accepting a key belief difference…. Or perhaps it’s just because you don’t like the way they interact with your family and you can’t shake off the feeling. Either way the sooner you acknowledge these thoughts and feelings the more you’ll realize that the relationship is not going to last.