ESFP Love Matches
ESFP’s are fun-loving, caring people. They don’t like to take life too seriously but are committed to their friends and family’s well-being. ESFP’s are traditionally paired with Introverted Judgers such as an ISFJ or an ISTJ but I don’t think an ESFP/ISTJ pairing is a good idea unless the ISTJ has a higher feeling side, or the ESFP is not a super high feeler. It works best if they can balance each other out. ESFP’s may not always seem sensitive, however after awhile they will become tired of the lack of compassion and insensitive comments that an ISTJ is capable of; likewise, the ISTJ will quickly get annoyed with an ESFP’s ease of sharing and showing their emotions.
A better match for an ESFP would be the INFP or a dual INFP/ENFP (as long as the P preference is not super high). An INFP would appreciate the caring side and enjoy the adventurous spirit of the ESFP. Also, the ESFP would benefit from the INFP’s imaginative side.